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Post by emmjay on Aug 21, 2020 14:12:33 GMT -5
Also, I have heard many people claim they are anti-abortion for religious reasons, but are OK with it in the case or rape or incest. In other words, if it isn’t the woman’s “fault” she got pregnant, she should be allowed to have an abortion. That has zero to do with “life” and everything to do with policing women’s behavior.
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Post by justthinking on Aug 21, 2020 14:12:38 GMT -5
I can’t wrap my mind around Biden being too radical. In the UK, he would be a Tory. I know! He's so moderate. Right now anything a hiccup left of trump is considered a socialist, which is how suddenly a bunch of republicans found themselves ostracized and declaring themselves independents or democrats.
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Post by emmjay on Aug 21, 2020 14:15:07 GMT -5
I can’t wrap my mind around Biden being too radical. In the UK, he would be a Tory. I know! He's so moderate. Right now anything a hiccup left of trump is considered a socialist, which is how suddenly a bunch of republicans found themselves ostracized and declaring themselves independents or democrats. I would say the US has shifted pretty far to the right in the last several decades. Today’s GOP would think Eisenhower was a socialist leftist libtard.
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Post by emmjay on Aug 21, 2020 14:32:45 GMT -5
Also, I have heard many people claim they are anti-abortion for religious reasons, but are OK with it in the case or rape or incest. In other words, if it isn’t the woman’s “fault” she got pregnant, she should be allowed to have an abortion. That has zero to do with “life” and everything to do with policing women’s behavior. ETA: just to be clear, I don’t in any way mean you with this comment, nikkikatie! I went to a Jesuit university and I have several people I know IRL who fit this description. Sorry if I wasn’t clear when I posted it. Your position is completely reasonable.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 21, 2020 14:35:52 GMT -5
I can’t wrap my mind around Biden being too radical. In the UK, he would be a Tory. Well, I was speaking generally about every election. Having only two parties feels like a choice between two radical options for me. I agree that Biden is more moderate than Trump, for sure. My primary beefs with Biden from a policy perspective have to do with Health Care - I don't want to just lower the Medicare age or try to cobble together ACA. We need a new plan. I don't need the plan outlined for me but I want to hear a strong commitment to STUDY and employ experts to FIX it. Not just bandage it. I also don't love his free two year college plan as THE plan for secondary education reform. I'd like see limits on student loans and their interest rates which would force colleges and universities to delivery high quality education for less. The ease of student loans and the competition for more amenities drives up the prices, IMO. Fix those things and we could see a decrease in costs. So, are those dealbreakers for me? Maybe not. But, I'm still undecided. Also, I have heard many people claim they are anti-abortion for religious reasons, but are OK with it in the case or rape or incest. In other words, if it isn’t the woman’s “fault” she got pregnant, she should be allowed to have an abortion. That has zero to do with “life” and everything to do with policing women’s behavior. To me that is cognitively dissonant and I agree with you. That is not a part of my faith and its view on abortion. I can’t wrap my mind around Biden being too radical. In the UK, he would be a Tory. I know! He's so moderate. Right now anything a hiccup left of trump is considered a socialist, which is how suddenly a bunch of republicans found themselves ostracized and declaring themselves independents or democrats. Or being told they're RINOs by other Republicans.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 21, 2020 14:36:45 GMT -5
Also, I have heard many people claim they are anti-abortion for religious reasons, but are OK with it in the case or rape or incest. In other words, if it isn’t the woman’s “fault” she got pregnant, she should be allowed to have an abortion. That has zero to do with “life” and everything to do with policing women’s behavior. ETA: just to be clear, I don’t in any way mean you with this comment, nikkikatie! I went to a Jesuit university and I have several people I know IRL who fit this description. Sorry if I wasn’t clear when I posted it. Your position is completely reasonable. You're fine! I knew you weren't saying that I said anything like that.
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Post by nansel on Aug 21, 2020 14:42:49 GMT -5
I can’t wrap my mind around Biden being too radical. In the UK, he would be a Tory. In Canada he’d be the same! When I’m reading about US politics I have to constantly remind myself that left/right is relative. Mind you, when the socialist and communist name calling starts, I give up - there’s no hope for those people.
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Post by mimi on Aug 22, 2020 11:35:10 GMT -5
One thing I wanted to mention about the “free” post-secondary education thing. Our province (Saskatchewan) has a post-secondary education credit for people who have completed a degree or diploma program & are working in our province. That prevents people from taking just 1 year because it’s “free” but helps those who have completed their programs & are working in our province.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 22, 2020 14:03:28 GMT -5
One thing I wanted to mention about the “free” post-secondary education thing. Our province (Saskatchewan) has a post-secondary education credit for people who have completed a degree or diploma program & are working in our province. That prevents people from taking just 1 year because it’s “free” but helps those who have completed their programs & are working in our province. For me, it's not so much about "free" - we have something called the Pell Grant for low income people to subsidize the cost of education and I fully support that. I think the real problem is the rapidly escalating cost of tuition (out of line with normal inflation) and that is driven on the fact that we have very easily accessible (but high cost) debt for college and a culture where "everyone needs to go to college to get the American Dream". Colleges CAN charge more because students "can just borrow the money they need!" and "there is a guaranteed return on the money!". We have to fix the COST of education while also supporting people who desire to get an education. Just flooding more money into the system won't force the colleges and universities to fix the problem. So, I don't hate the idea of giving people two years of community college - I just don't think it fixes the root of the problem. Your system sounds perfectly reasonable, but I also don't think that the cost of education is as high in Canada. I could be wrong on that, though! I worked very hard to pay off my student loans for both undergrad and grad school as quickly as possible, but I'm in a position of privilege and it was still a lot of work and sacrifice to do that. Had I not paid them off quickly, they would just continue to grow exponentially as the interest compounds DAILY. I think that people are really starting to see the impact of that now that we have the interest suspended due to COVID. Kids taking out these loans have no idea the impact that the payments will have on their lives after they graduate. And, many of those kids don't have someone at home to guide them into making reasonable decisions about college debt.
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Post by Inky on Aug 22, 2020 14:18:24 GMT -5
One thing I wanted to mention about the “free” post-secondary education thing. Our province (Saskatchewan) has a post-secondary education credit for people who have completed a degree or diploma program & are working in our province. That prevents people from taking just 1 year because it’s “free” but helps those who have completed their programs & are working in our province. For me, it's not so much about "free" - we have something called the Pell Grant for low income people to subsidize the cost of education and I fully support that. I think the real problem is the rapidly escalating cost of tuition (out of line with normal inflation) and that is driven on the fact that we have very easily accessible (but high cost) debt for college and a culture where "everyone needs to go to college to get the American Dream". Colleges CAN charge more because students "can just borrow the money they need!" and "there is a guaranteed return on the money!". We have to fix the COST of education while also supporting people who desire to get an education. Just flooding more money into the system won't force the colleges and universities to fix the problem. So, I don't hate the idea of giving people two years of community college - I just don't think it fixes the root of the problem. Your system sounds perfectly reasonable, but I also don't think that the cost of education is as high in Canada. I could be wrong on that, though! I worked very hard to pay off my student loans for both undergrad and grad school as quickly as possible, but I'm in a position of privilege and it was still a lot of work and sacrifice to do that. Had I not paid them off quickly, they would just continue to grow exponentially as the interest compounds DAILY. I think that people are really starting to see the impact of that now that we have the interest suspended due to COVID. Kids taking out these loans have no idea the impact that the payments will have on their lives after they graduate. And, many of those kids don't have someone at home to guide them into making reasonable decisions about college debt. Those types of loans cannot be dispensed due to bankruptcy either, can they?
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Post by emmjay on Aug 22, 2020 14:39:31 GMT -5
University tuition in the US is insane. My kids can study in Ireland, Netherlands, Sweden, etc for around €3000 plus room and board, at some excellent schools. Meanwhile, my husband’s friend in Texas said by the time both his kids graduate, he will have spent close to $500k. There is no way the actual value is that much greater for your typical US school; it’s just more expensive. I don’t know what the solution is, but the cost and the resulting student loan debt are out of control.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 22, 2020 15:20:14 GMT -5
For me, it's not so much about "free" - we have something called the Pell Grant for low income people to subsidize the cost of education and I fully support that. I think the real problem is the rapidly escalating cost of tuition (out of line with normal inflation) and that is driven on the fact that we have very easily accessible (but high cost) debt for college and a culture where "everyone needs to go to college to get the American Dream". Colleges CAN charge more because students "can just borrow the money they need!" and "there is a guaranteed return on the money!". We have to fix the COST of education while also supporting people who desire to get an education. Just flooding more money into the system won't force the colleges and universities to fix the problem. So, I don't hate the idea of giving people two years of community college - I just don't think it fixes the root of the problem. Your system sounds perfectly reasonable, but I also don't think that the cost of education is as high in Canada. I could be wrong on that, though! I worked very hard to pay off my student loans for both undergrad and grad school as quickly as possible, but I'm in a position of privilege and it was still a lot of work and sacrifice to do that. Had I not paid them off quickly, they would just continue to grow exponentially as the interest compounds DAILY. I think that people are really starting to see the impact of that now that we have the interest suspended due to COVID. Kids taking out these loans have no idea the impact that the payments will have on their lives after they graduate. And, many of those kids don't have someone at home to guide them into making reasonable decisions about college debt. Those types of loans cannot be dispensed due to bankruptcy either, can they? Generally, that's correct. They only go away if you die or, in some cases, are permanently disabled. University tuition in the US is insane. My kids can study in Ireland, Netherlands, Sweden, etc for around €3000 plus room and board, at some excellent schools. Meanwhile, my husband’s friend in Texas said by the time both his kids graduate, he will have spent close to $500k. There is no way the actual value is that much greater for your typical US school; it’s just more expensive. I don’t know what the solution is, but the cost and the resulting student loan debt are out of control. We estimate that if DD goes to our land-grant in-state University it will cost around 100k for four years. And we feel lucky that that is where she wants to go, lol! We started very early talking about college choice and how you don't choose a college by how pretty it is - you go by program and cost. People often want to give their kids the "dream" college experience with tons of amenities. My college dorm looked like a jail cell, TBH. It was fine! I agree completely that the value of the education is generally not commensurate with the cost. And there are very few majors where you NEED to attend a high-profile program to do well. And, typically, for those majors/programs you'd need grad school anyway. The solution has to be both cultural and policy - which, of course, will be very difficult. This is why I get so annoyed with the proposed solutions of "free college!" and "discharge the student loans!" - it's a short term and shortsighted answer, IMO.
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Post by mimi on Aug 22, 2020 16:52:26 GMT -5
Of my 4 kids, only 1 went to university. She had student loans which she paid off as quickly as she could. Our sons either have or are going through the apprenticeship program to get their red seal in a trade. (One of our son-in-laws did that too). I don’t know if that’s an option in the US but it’s a very practical way of getting a career in trades here without a lot of debt. (None of them wanted desk jobs, they prefer working with their hands.)
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Post by justthinking on Aug 22, 2020 17:10:11 GMT -5
Our smaller state universities have tuition, room, and board in the $15,000 per year range. Two of my kids went to excellent private schools which offered them scholarships bringing their costs down to about the same. My nephews spent about twice that much to go to their state university, which seems outrageous.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 22, 2020 17:10:12 GMT -5
Of my 4 kids, only 1 went to university. She had student loans which she paid off as quickly as she could. Our sons either have or are going through the apprenticeship program to get their red seal in a trade. (One of our son-in-laws did that too). I don’t know if that’s an option in the US but it’s a very practical way of getting a career in trades here without a lot of debt. (None of them wanted desk jobs, they prefer working with their hands.) It absolutely is an option here. But, there is a cultural myth that "you have to go to college" for the vast majority of kids. My husband skipped college and went into the Navy, for example. He did end up doing college later and now has three college degrees (a BS in Nuclear Engineering Technology, an Associates in Nursing and a Bachelors in Nursing). His GI Bill (money you get for college after military service) paid for the first BS and Associates. We paid around $11,000 for the Bachelors in Nursing from an online completion program. So, he did well. I think that schools need to invest more in helping students plan for their careers instead of college. Sometimes that will include college and sometimes it won't. I also think that gap years, when done really well, are something that a lot of US kids could benefit from.
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Post by niccikatie on Aug 22, 2020 17:11:49 GMT -5
Our smaller state universities have tuition, room, and board in the $15,000 per year range. Two of my kids went to excellent private schools which offered them scholarships bringing their costs down to about the same. My nephews spent about twice that much to go to their state university, which seems outrageous. This is a good point, too! Just because it's a private university does't mean it is going to cost more. And, the room and board can really make or break the bank! Sometimes, tuition is pretty affordable, but the room and board costs are outrageous.
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Post by villanelle on Aug 22, 2020 19:25:07 GMT -5
University tuition in the US is insane. My kids can study in Ireland, Netherlands, Sweden, etc for around €3000 plus room and board, at some excellent schools. Meanwhile, my husband’s friend in Texas said by the time both his kids graduate, he will have spent close to $500k. There is no way the actual value is that much greater for your typical US school; it’s just more expensive. I don’t know what the solution is, but the cost and the resulting student loan debt are out of control. While I agree that tuition is insane and needs to be addressed, $250k for one kid is probably far more than necessary. (I know that parts of the following options might not be available to everyone.) If one goes to an in-state school, lives at home, buys used books when possible, and gets it done in 4 or 4.5 years, it probably won't cost that much. If they go to a community college for the first two years, even less so. So it's kind of a combination of factors, especially for kids who actually have families and options. Some of the responsibility is with the buyers of education, not the sellers. If I buy Jimmy Choos and then complain that shoes are too expensive, it's missing part of the picture. Maybe shoes are too expensive. And lots of people can't afford them, and that's a real problem. But there was a way for me to cover my feet without spending $500.
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Post by coachgrrl on Aug 22, 2020 21:10:05 GMT -5
We spent about 30k per kid. One went to a state school and came out with an additional 10k in loans(which she’s already paid off), one went to an Ivy League school that was generous covering his whole tuition- we covered his room and board, one went to cc for 2 years and now is living at my sisters, and finishing at a 4 yr school, we bought her a used car. So nowhere near 500k for all 3 kids..thankfully
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Post by nansel on Aug 22, 2020 23:04:15 GMT -5
My Dd paid about $5500 a year for her degree. Lived at home for free, worked almost full time, paid for most of it herself, and finished without any student loans. We have two universities here that were an option for her - she picked the one that was a 10 minute bus ride from home (and the bus pass was included in the school fees).
We couldn’t have afforded to pay for her to go away, so she would have had to take on mass debt to do that. She really didn’t care where she went, so it worked out great.
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Post by emmjay on Aug 23, 2020 3:24:35 GMT -5
University tuition in the US is insane. My kids can study in Ireland, Netherlands, Sweden, etc for around €3000 plus room and board, at some excellent schools. Meanwhile, my husband’s friend in Texas said by the time both his kids graduate, he will have spent close to $500k. There is no way the actual value is that much greater for your typical US school; it’s just more expensive. I don’t know what the solution is, but the cost and the resulting student loan debt are out of control. While I agree that tuition is insane and needs to be addressed, $250k for one kid is probably far more than necessary. (I know that parts of the following options might not be available to everyone.) If one goes to an in-state school, lives at home, buys used books when possible, and gets it done in 4 or 4.5 years, it probably won't cost that much. If they go to a community college for the first two years, even less so. So it's kind of a combination of factors, especially for kids who actually have families and options. Some of the responsibility is with the buyers of education, not the sellers. If I buy Jimmy Choos and then complain that shoes are too expensive, it's missing part of the picture. Maybe shoes are too expensive. And lots of people can't afford them, and that's a real problem. But there was a way for me to cover my feet without spending $500. Yeah, my husband’s friend is probably an extreme example. I don’t know where his kids are going or what he is including in that $500k figure. But in general, if you look at European universities, they are cheaper than US universities, often even if you are coming from the US and are not paying EU tuition (except for British universities). If you are paying “home” tuition, the average costs can be even lower. This is a few years old, but still generally accurate: read.oecd-ilibrary.org/education/education-at-a-glance-2017_eag-2017-en#page223It’s kind of like healthcare, in that the US spends the most money, but the outcomes aren’t necessarily better than places where people spend less. I agree with Nikkikatie that it will require a cultural shift in addition to policy changes. ETA - a lot of bachelors programs in Europe are also only 3 years, which makes a big difference as well. I assume that’s because you start specialising in your field while still in secondary school, instead of doing a lot of general prerequisite courses during freshman year.
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